Sunday, August 23, 2009

《假如生活欺骗了你》- 普希金

假如生活欺骗了你,
不要忧郁,也不要愤慨!
不顺心时暂且克制自己,
相信吧,快乐之日就会到来。

我们的心儿憧憬着未来,
现今总是令人悲哀:
一切都是暂时的,
转瞬既逝,
而那逝去的将会成为亲切的怀念。

普希金的诗篇很多,但最容易记,最能唤起人回忆与共鸣的是这首只有八句的短诗《假如生活欺骗了你》。
这首诗肯定是普希金的瞬间之作,灵光一闪。
最早读者首诗还是少年时代,感觉还不怎么深,对人生,对世界,只是觉得这诗很美,蒙着一层淡淡的忧伤,音节柔和,富有韵律,令人向往。

经历了很多年,才觉得这诗深刻。
原因是“假如生活欺骗了你”........ 不幸,古往今来,谁不曾被生活蒙蔽过呢?认识生活是那么容易吗?而人是个永远的矛盾体,社会人生又常常是另一个迷。历尽创伤,伤痕累累....... 迷底揭开,我们看见了世界的真相。我仍然还在起跑线.......

觉得这首诗似乎适合一切的情境:单独,入众,快乐时,忧伤时.......

Saturday, August 8, 2009

Recently...wish me well!

Recently I was experiencing sense of helplessness, confusion, frustration and anger at work. I can't remember how many time I was nearly "lose my control" of it. I was trying so hard to respond in a way that can build on my experience rather than fall victim to negative and self-defeating thinking. I always believe whatever the issue, the process of getting back on track is the same.
However, things are not as simple as I can imagine. I would never forget how painful the feeling was. Maybe do something like having a good cry to letting off steam by talking to someone about it or giving ourselves a little bit of pampering, it can counter the negativity, and also stops me from wallowing in my misery. It didn't help much, and I already thought of giving up. I need a bit more time to be recovery.
Every time I just questioned myself why things didn't turn out as I had hoped.
Some factors are outside my control. It brought me stress and disappointment. Should I just simply accept that? Or something I can do to change it? It doesn't matter what, I still need to move on with my live.
I have decided to set a health goals for myself. Wish me all the best on what my plan ahead!
Being positive, good news - to be continue ....